{"id":31862,"date":"2017-10-21T18:00:12","date_gmt":"2017-10-21T10:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/home\/?p=31862"},"modified":"2017-10-21T19:27:21","modified_gmt":"2017-10-21T11:27:21","slug":"10-things-people-should-know-about-catholic-mass-etiquette","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/index.php\/2017\/10\/21\/10-things-people-should-know-about-catholic-mass-etiquette\/","title":{"rendered":"10 Things People Should Know About Catholic Mass Etiquette"},"content":{"rendered":"[et_pb_section bb_built=”1″ admin_label=”section”][et_pb_row admin_label=”row”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_image admin_label=”Image” show_in_lightbox=”off” url_new_window=”off” use_overlay=”off” animation=”off” sticky=”off” align=”left” force_fullwidth=”on” always_center_on_mobile=”on” use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid” src=”http:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/article_mass2.jpg” \/][et_pb_text admin_label=”Image Caption” background_layout=”light” text_orientation=”left” text_font=”Arial||||” text_font_size=”12″ text_line_height=”1.3em” use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid” custom_padding=”||30px|”]\n

During the liturgy, those around you are praying and listening intently to the voice of God. The Word of God is read, the priest offers his insight and prayers are said as a community during the Mass.\u00a0(Photo: Marlon Santos \/ MPIM)<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text” background_layout=”light” text_orientation=”left” use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”]\n

A few weeks ago during Mass the people in the pew behind me would not stop talking. They chatted away throughout the whole Mass celebration. Needless to say, it was driving me crazy. I was getting more and more aggravated mostly because it was important for me to understand the gospel and veneration to the Consecration of the Host. I was just about to say something (possibly in an angry tone) when I came to the realization that they weren\u2019t Catholic(?). Not that it should be an excuse, but it is entirely possible that they just did not know the proper etiquette for Mass.\u00a0How would they know if they had never been to a Catholic Mass before?<\/strong><\/h5>\n

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It seems this is the season to attend special occasion Masses. Recently, I have been to an Ordination Mass, Feast Day Mass, and a Thanksgiving Mass. During events like this, it is not uncommon for non-Catholics to attend.\u00a0As Catholics, we joyfully welcome people of all faiths and backgrounds to attend our liturgy and participate in our worship, but there are a few guidelines that might be helpful for a visitor to understand.<\/strong><\/h5>\n

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Whatever you do, don\u2019t follow the lead of Mr. Bean in this hilarious clip from his Church experience! Though most people know we shouldn\u2019t sneeze without a tissue or fall asleep and snore loudly, there are a few other tips that are good to keep in mind that we\u2019ve included on our list.<\/h5>\n

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If you are planning a wedding or another event in which those of varying faiths may be in attendance at Mass, it might be good to share this lists of do\u2019s and don\u2019ts\u00a0<\/strong>with them beforehand.<\/strong>\u00a0By doing this you will save your guests the embarrassment of behavior that is not typical for a liturgy and you will also help your Catholic brothers and sisters to keep the Mass sacred.<\/h5>\n
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10 Rules of Etiquette \u00a0for \u00a0a Non-Catholic Attending a Catholic Mass<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n
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As Catholics, we joyfully welcome people of all faiths and backgrounds to attend our liturgy and participate in our worship, but there are a few guidelines that might be helpful for a visitor to be conscious of.\u00a0<\/strong>These guidelines are intended to help you understand how to best respect the sacredness of the Catholic Mass and respect the beliefs of others.<\/h5>\n

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    Save Conversations for After the Mass<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 During the liturgy, those around you are praying and listening intently to the voice of God. The Word of God is read, the priest offers his insight and prayers are said as a community during the Mass. These are all things that the faithful wish to hear. If you are talking, it will disrupt the ability of those around you to focus on God.<\/h5>\n<\/li>\n
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    Put Your Cell Phone on Airplane Mode and Keep it Your Pocket<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 Obviously, you\u2019re not in an airplane, you\u2019re in a church. However, this is more than a building.\u00a0It is a sacred space set apart for the worship of God.<\/strong>Putting your phone on silent will help to avoid embarrassing disruptions during the quieter parts of the Mass. In today\u2019s world, it is difficult to not look at our phones for an hour, but out of respect and reverence, please try to refrain from texting or using the internet while you are present in the house of God.<\/h5>\n<\/li>\n
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    Please Come Forward for a Blessing, but Don\u2019t Receive Communion<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 You may be invited to come forward and receive a blessing during Holy Communion. To do this, cross your arms over your chest so that the Priest (only a priest can give a blessing in this way) will know not to administer Communion. \u00a0It is also perfectly acceptable to remain in your pew at this time and pray. There are many reasons why the Church asks those who have not yet received their First Holy Communion to not partake in this Holy Sacrament and you can find out more about them\u00a0here<\/a>. \u00a0Catholics firmly believe that the Eucharist is the body, blood, soul and divinity of Jesus Christ.<\/strong>\u00a0 Please respect their beliefs by not receiving Communion at this time.<\/h5>\n<\/li>\n
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    Spit out Your Gum and Leave Snacks and Drinks for Later.<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 In God\u2019s house, it is best that snacks be avoided until the liturgy is finished. Eating can be very disruptive when others are trying to maintain a prayerful mindset.<\/h5>\n<\/li>\n
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    You don\u2019t have to guess what is going on<\/strong>. \u2013 You can follow along in the missal. Most of the time you will be able to find a book in your pew that will have the readings, prayers, and songs available for you to use \u00a0in order to follow along with the Mass.<\/h5>\n<\/li>\n
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    Sit. Stand. Kneel. Repeat<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 Though the missal lists the prayers, not all have the physical actions of prayer listed. In this case, it is best to follow the lead of those around you.<\/h5>\n<\/li>\n
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    Children are welcome to the community, but be mindful of their behavior.<\/strong>\u2013 Most people love to see babies and children present in the Mass. Little noises, cries, and sounds are a part of the package when it comes to children, but if your child becomes too disruptive it is best to take them to the back of the Church. Remember, that although others think your child is adorable, this is a time set aside for prayer and focusing on God.<\/h5>\n<\/li>\n
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    Dress appropriately.<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 In our comfortable and casual culture, we sometimes forget that we shouldn\u2019t wear yoga pants and flip flops everywhere. \u00a0At many important events, there is somewhat of a dress code. A Catholic Mass is one of those events. Your clothes don\u2019t have to be fancy, but they should be modest and respectful of the atmosphere of prayer.<\/h5>\n<\/li>\n
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    Wait until the priest exits before you leave the Mass, begin talking or take out your phone.<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 You will probably see people start to exit and get their things ready immediately following Communion, but that doesn\u2019t mean it is time to go. The correct protocol is to wait until the priest processes out of the Church and to follow after him.<\/h5>\n<\/li>\n
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    Have Questions? We Want to Answer (of course, after Mass!)<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 We hope that you will enjoy your time spent with the Lord and will have many questions about the ways in which Catholics worship.\u00a0Find a Catholic Catechist or Parishioners to help you sort through your questions and get some of the answers you need to grow in your own faith.\u00a0<\/strong>(Excerpts: Fr. L.Paz, Fr. M. Villamayor, CSMSv4, Sis. Becky\/CL)<\/strong><\/h5>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n
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