{"id":37020,"date":"2019-01-23T15:34:12","date_gmt":"2019-01-23T07:34:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/home\/?p=37020"},"modified":"2019-01-23T15:37:10","modified_gmt":"2019-01-23T07:37:10","slug":"pagpaparaya","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/index.php\/2019\/01\/23\/pagpaparaya\/","title":{"rendered":"Pagpaparaya"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ admin_label=”section” _builder_version=”3.0.47″ custom_padding=”0|0px|50px|0px|false|false”][et_pb_row admin_label=”row” _builder_version=”3.0.48″ background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”3.0.47″ parallax=”off” parallax_method=”on”][et_pb_image force_fullwidth=”on” admin_label=”Supporting Image for Fr Bembol” _builder_version=”3.19.7″ animation=”off” sticky=”off” use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid” src=”http:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/article_pagparaya.jpg”][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text admin_label=”Image Caption ” _builder_version=”3.0.87″ text_font=”Arial||||” text_font_size=”12″ text_line_height=”1.3em” background_size=”initial” background_position=”top_left” background_repeat=”repeat” custom_padding=”||30px|” use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”][\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=”Content for Fr Bembol” _builder_version=”3.19.7″ use_border_color=”off” border_color=”#ffffff” border_style=”solid”]

Kapag tayo\u2019y malalim ang pagmamahal sa isa\u2019t-isa ay normal lang ang konsepto at aksyon ng sakripisyo. Kakaiba at tunay na kahanga-hanga naman ang sakripisyo kung ito\u2019y isinagawa sa taong ni hindi natin kakilala \u2013 halimbawa ay ang pagsagip sa nalulunod na tao na \u2018di natin kaano-ano. Pambihira ang ganitong pagmamahal. Pero kung ang pag-ibig ay natural o normal, ganoon din ang pagpaparaya o sakripisyo. Kung magka-minsan nga, ito\u2019y nagiging napaka-dramatic.<\/p>\n

\u201cAAKYATIN KO ANG PINAKAMATAAS NA BUNDOK\u201d o eksaherado o “LALANGUYIN ANG PINAKAMALAWAK NA DAGAT PARA SA\u2019YO.” Madalas ito winiwika sa mga hangal sa pag-ibig o infatuated na mangingibig. Katuwa man kung isipin natin, ay sinasalamin lamang nito ang bugso ng pagmamahal na madalas mararamdaman ng mga mang-iibig.<\/p>\n

Natatanto nila na ang sakripisyo ay lalong magpapatibay lalo ng kanilang pagmamahalan pagkat ito ang pinaka-ramdam na ramdam na katibayan na meron tayong HUMAN SOLIDARITY o makataong pagkakaisa. Ang isa ay magpaparaya, samantalang ang isa naman ay giginhawa sa ganansya na ipinagkaloob noon una \u2013 PERO \u2013 NGUNIT \u2013 SUBALIT meron pinagsama-samang biyaya sa ganitong okasyon pagkat \u2018di naman tayo talo sa pagsasakripisyo, bagkus ay kay sidhing ligaya ang madarama. Dahil nga kung anong mabuti para sa taong minahal natin ay hahalintulad ding \u201cpakinabang\u201d para sa atin. IT\u2019S A TWO-WAY STREET ALTHOUGH ONLY ONE SEEMS TO BE ACTIVELY \u201cSACRIFICE.\u201d<\/strong> Kung tunay na malalim ang ating pagmamahal ang benepisyo nito ay damang-dama rin natin.<\/p>\n

Oo nga may tinatawag na qualifier sa ganitong ikinikilos natin. Madalas ngang maliitin ito ng bansag na WITH STRINGS ATTACHED o may motibong material na pakinabang para sa nagsasakripisyo. Mas nasa lugar ito kung ika-kwalipika natin nang ganito: WITH HEART-STRINGS ATTACHED. Kung magka-minsan nga ay mapapa-Satanas ang ating magandang layunin.<\/p>\n

Siguro naman ay naaalala pa ninyo ang kasabihang HELL IS PAVED WITH GOOD INTENTIONS \u2013 yung di inaakalang makakapahamak sa tinutulungan mo ay \u2018di nagbubunga ng mabuti sa \u2018di kalaunan. Ibang usapin na \u2018yon. Ang tinatalakay natin dito ay ang sakripisyong sinalilaliman natin nang buong pagmamahal ay kahit pa di mawari sa kapahamakan ng minamahal o PURITY OF INTENTION CAN GO A LONG WAY AND IS NOT GOING SO EASILY INTO THE DEVIL’S HAND OR MACHINATION.<\/strong> Ganon pa man, dapat tayong magpaka-ingat, lalong lalo na (wika na e.e. cummings) sa larangan ng pag-ibig: <\/strong><\/p>\n

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ONE CANNOT BE TOO CAREFUL OF LOVE, OF HOW WE LOVE.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ganon pa man, dapat tayong magpaka-ingat, lalong lalo na sa larangan ng pag-ibig.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":37055,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[126,52],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37020","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-fr-bembol","category-reflections"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8Ootw-9D6","jetpack_likes_enabled":false,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/aranzazushrine.ph\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/article_pagparaya.jpg?fit=1121%2C838&ssl=1","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37020","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37020"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37020\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":37059,"href":"https:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37020\/revisions\/37059"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/37055"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37020"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37020"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37020"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}