{"id":39821,"date":"2019-12-10T22:15:27","date_gmt":"2019-12-10T14:15:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/home\/?p=39821"},"modified":"2019-12-10T22:16:08","modified_gmt":"2019-12-10T14:16:08","slug":"advent-recollection-2019-family-is-forever","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/index.php\/2019\/12\/10\/advent-recollection-2019-family-is-forever\/","title":{"rendered":"Advent Recollection 2019: Family is Forever"},"content":{"rendered":"[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; admin_label=&#8221;Main Section News&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|0px|0px|0px&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/aranzazushrine.ph\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/Advent-Recollection.jpg&#8221; align_tablet=&#8221;center&#8221; align_phone=&#8221;&#8221; align_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; admin_label=&#8221;Supporting Image for News Article&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.0.7&#8243;]\n[\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Image Caption&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.4&#8243; text_font=&#8221;Arial||||||||&#8221; text_font_size=&#8221;12&#8243; text_line_height=&#8221;1.3em&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||30px|&#8221;][\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Main News Article \/ Blog \/ Content&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.0.7&#8243;]\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Advent recollection prepares each Christian for the coming of Christ by praying and contemplating on the true meaning of advent. The Diocesan Shrine and Parish of Nuestra Senora de Aranzazu (DSPNSDA) held an Advent Recollection last Sunday, December 7, with Dr. Michele Malignay as the recollection master.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dr. Michele Malignay is a<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">family life specialist, psychologist, guidance counselor, lecturer, speaker, and author. She talked about the importance of Jesus Christ in our families. She also explained the differences of our actions when we are with our family.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Presence vs. Present<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; During Christmas, we always look forward to the presents or gifts that we will be receiving from our relatives. This Christmas, let us genuinely appreciate the presence of each of our loved ones and be grateful for it because we don\u2019t get to be with them for the entire year. Sadly, some can\u2019t even be with their loved ones even on this special day so you should make the most out of it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The words in 2 John 1-1 expresses the importance of presence by, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0&#8220;Though I have many things to write to you, I don&#8217;t want to use paper and ink. Instead, I hope to come to you and talk face to face so that our joy may be complete.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> The bottomline is that own presence value most and not our gifts. Best example of this is the presence of the three wise men who came to see the birth of Jesus Christ.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Celebrating vs. Calculating<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; in every gathering that we attend,we should always celebrate and not count all the members and their possessions, thus, celebrate as one with love. This Christmas, let us celebrate our friends and loved ones\u2019 presence without counting the financial nor the contribution that they can share for the celebration.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Responding vs. Reacting<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211;\u00a0 Dr. Malignay said that we must respond to our loved ones with love even if they cannot respond to us regarding our need. Always choose your parent or siblings, or whoever relatives over other things. Be the light for whenever they need you and respond wholeheartedly instead of reacting violently.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Connection vs. Conversation<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; Having just a conversation is different compared to having a deep connection. This coming holiday, let us connect with Christ and our family and not just have time for the sake of talking to them. Connect with them and listen to what they have to say.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Enrich vs. Estrange<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, as we grow, we encounter many people and we sometimes lose the closeness that we have established with our own family. Christmas season is the best time to rebuild and enrich our connection with our family. Do it together while also enriching our connection with Jesus Christ.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Real Self vs. Pseudo Self<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; During Christmas, we buy new clothes and things for ourselves. This advent season, may we reflect on ourselves that we may not be defined by our worldly needs and compare ourselves with others. Dr. Michele emphasized that we should show our real self over pseudo self. On the other hand, let us accept others as who they are and what they have.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Completing vs. Complementing<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; We always want to celebrate the holiday by reuniting with our\u00a0 relatives. 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